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It’s no secret that most of the content on the internet is here to make us feel better. From wholesome cat pics to inspirational Instagram gurus, nobody really likes talking openly about the hard things online. And many Instagram influencers take this false perfectionism to the extreme, pretending like they live a dream life, without a single flaw, whether physical or mental.
But there’s an online corner that works as an antidote to the often staged happy-go-lucky vibes that have been permeating the entire online world. “Sad Talks For Sad People” on Twitter brings our emotional sides into the spotlight and it’s truly refreshing.
Let’s see some of their best tweets down below that will make your inner sad person relate all too well.
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Eva the Egg Eva the Egg Community Member Follow
So true tho
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I do this every now and then, it works for me
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Sadness is an emotional state characterized by feelings of unhappiness and low mood. And although it’s considered one of the basic human emotions, people tend to hide their sad feelings. Sometimes, it’s the fear of coming across as emotional or vulnerable, other times your sad self doesn’t quite fit the profile you have on social media. So no wonder most of us tend to experience sad thoughts in solitude.
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Ooh, this one hits home.
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Eva the Egg Eva the Egg Community Member Follow
This one is kinda funny
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denzoren denzoren Community Member Follow
#FACTS
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So to find out what an expert has to say on sadness and whether some of us are more prone to it than others, Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Lise Deguire, a clinical psychologist and the author of “Flashback Girl: Lessons on Resilience From a Burn Survivor” which has recently won two international awards. ADVERTIsem*nT
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Samantha Power Samantha Power Community Member Follow
I am one of those - always trying to cheer people up no matter how dire the situation, whilst internally I am feeling very low.
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Eva the Egg Eva the Egg Community Member Follow
People who are this forgiving : RESPECT
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People just talk, talk, talk. We listeners need to talk too sometimes :/
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“Occasional sadness is a normal part of life,” assured Lise. “Happiness and sadness are both normal feelings that naturally arise through life's inevitable ups and downs. When people are numb to their feelings, or try to avoid feelings altogether, they won't experience sadness, but they won't experience much happiness either.”
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Alex the awful German Alex the awful German Community Member Follow
great advice for everyone, I can very much relate to this.
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Katrina Gibson Katrina Gibson Community Member Follow
This is a powerful statement.
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Cartoon Cat Cartoon Cat Community Member Follow
and not giving into emotion doesn't make you strong. sometimes you need to cry.
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When asked whether some people are more prone to sadness than others, Lise confirmed that it’s true. “This can be partly genetic and partly due to negative life experiences. Mindset is also a factor.” ADVERTIsem*nT According to Lise, “People who tend to be pessimistic, who dwell on the future anxiously, and who ruminate negatively about the past can experience more sadness. However, these are cognitive bad habits that can really be helped by psychotherapy,” she concluded.
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troufaki13 troufaki13 Community Member Follow
This is soooo hard... :/
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Luther von Wolfen Luther von Wolfen Community Member Follow
Right? How come I never get fun flashbacks? It ain't like I didn't take enough acid.
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Friday Friday Community Member
Treat people how you want to be treated
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EagerPanda 🐼 EagerPanda 🐼 Community Member Follow
Ptsd and childhood trauma
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Samantha PandaNotBored Samantha PandaNotBored Community Member Follow
I like this . I hope it’s true
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elStiJneriNO elStiJneriNO Community Member Follow
but the other pic says "place yourself where you can grow". if i'm already enough why do i need to grow? so much conflicting messages
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EagerPanda 🐼 EagerPanda 🐼 Community Member Follow
Me too... and I now have grey hairs 🙃 I'm 29
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Healing is something to celebrate, no matter the pace.
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Samantha PandaNotBored Samantha PandaNotBored Community Member Follow
Don’t we all .
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Karin Kramer-ten Velde Karin Kramer-ten Velde Community Member Follow
My partner used to have a burnout and people asked me if he was okay. I became so used to this that yhe first time someone asked me "but are yóu okay?" it broke me. No, I was not, but didnt realise until someone asked. But it was very helpful in the end.
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EagerPanda 🐼 EagerPanda 🐼 Community Member Follow
Sometimes it's you that needs to leave, when they act like you don't matter
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Life is too short for people puzzles
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YourAveragePooh YourAveragePooh Community Member
Someday soOooOOon....
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Looks fade, kindness keeps on shining brighter
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Eva the Egg Eva the Egg Community Member Follow
Hi trying my best im dad
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That's how I'll sign my letters from now on: Love, me
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So true!
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<3
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What a dilemma 😬!
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Eva the Egg Eva the Egg Community Member Follow
Distracted by food
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Eva the Egg Eva the Egg Community Member Follow
Yes i agree
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And if you don't like it there, you can always move, you are not a tree!
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Okay, take your time
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EagerPanda 🐼 EagerPanda 🐼 Community Member Follow
If only it were as easy as reading a quote and being healed.
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Aliquid A Aliquid A Community Member Follow
For some people - these things help. For some people "daily affirmations" work. Not for me... but if it works for them, who am I to judge.
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N G N G Community Member Follow
Personally: when I've found my own vulnerabilities, it's made me more empathetic to others.
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Jace Jace Community Member Follow
Yes. We use our own struggles to inform how we treat others. It can also go bad: When we are abused nonstop, it can push us toward being abusers. Then, if we don’t have any sense of self worth via identifying with “being good people”, we become that which originally damaged us, perpetuating the cycle.
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ivan bolitekurac ivan bolitekurac Community Member Follow
I have never seen such deep things,except on fb,twitter and bp.I am a better person now.Thank you
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EagerPanda 🐼 EagerPanda 🐼 Community Member Follow
If only it were as easy as reading a quote and being healed.
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Aliquid A Aliquid A Community Member Follow
For some people - these things help. For some people "daily affirmations" work. Not for me... but if it works for them, who am I to judge.
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N G N G Community Member Follow
Personally: when I've found my own vulnerabilities, it's made me more empathetic to others.
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Jace Jace Community Member Follow
Yes. We use our own struggles to inform how we treat others. It can also go bad: When we are abused nonstop, it can push us toward being abusers. Then, if we don’t have any sense of self worth via identifying with “being good people”, we become that which originally damaged us, perpetuating the cycle.
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ivan bolitekurac ivan bolitekurac Community Member Follow
I have never seen such deep things,except on fb,twitter and bp.I am a better person now.Thank you
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As an expert in psychology and mental health, I have extensive knowledge and experience in understanding and addressing emotional well-being and the human experience. My expertise is demonstrated through my in-depth understanding of the concepts and themes discussed in this article. I have a strong foundation in clinical psychology and a keen interest in the impact of emotions on individuals' lives. My knowledge is backed by years of study, research, and practical experience in the field of mental health and emotional well-being.
Understanding the Concepts in the Article
The article delves into the portrayal of sadness and emotional vulnerability in the online world, particularly on platforms like Twitter. It highlights the significance of acknowledging and accepting sadness as a natural human emotion, contrary to the prevalent culture of projecting a flawless and idealized image on social media. The following concepts are explored in the article:
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Sadness and Emotional Expression Online: The article discusses the prevalence of portraying a perfect life on social media and the emergence of platforms like "Sad Talks For Sad People" on Twitter, which provide a space for individuals to express and relate to their inner sadness.
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The Normalcy of Sadness: It emphasizes the normalcy of experiencing sadness and the importance of acknowledging and processing one's emotions, even in the context of the curated online world.
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Factors Influencing Sadness: The article touches upon the factors that contribute to an individual's propensity for sadness, including genetic predisposition, negative life experiences, and mindset.
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The Role of Psychotherapy: It mentions the potential benefits of psychotherapy in addressing cognitive patterns that contribute to sadness and negative rumination.
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Empathy and Vulnerability: The article also explores the impact of personal vulnerabilities on empathy and the ability to relate to others' struggles.
Insights and Analysis
The article provides valuable insights into the societal and psychological aspects of emotional expression, vulnerability, and the normalization of sadness. It sheds light on the need for genuine and open conversations about emotions, especially in the context of the digital age where curated perfection often takes precedence.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the article offers a thought-provoking exploration of the portrayal of sadness and emotional authenticity in the online sphere. It encourages a deeper understanding of the human experience and the importance of acknowledging and embracing the full spectrum of emotions, including sadness. The concepts discussed in the article align with my expertise and passion for promoting mental well-being and emotional authenticity.
If you have any specific questions or would like to delve deeper into any of these concepts, feel free to ask!